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Domestic Abuse 

Domestic abuse is an incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive, threatening, degrading and violent behaviour, including sexual violence, in the majority of cases by a partner or ex-partner, but also by a family member or carer.  

The definition of domestic abuse changed as part of the Domestic Abuse Act 2021. The new definition and the Domestic Abuse Act can be read in full here.  

Domestic abuse can consist of any of the following:  

  • physical or sexual abuse
  • violent or threatening behaviour
  • controlling or coercive behaviour
  • economic abuse
  • psychological, emotional or other abuse 

Read more about the different types of domestic abuse and how to recognise unhealthy behaviours on the Women’s Aid webpage, I’m not sure if my relationship is healthy.  

If you are in immediate danger, call 999 and ask for the police. If you can’t speak and are calling on a mobile press 55 to have your call transferred to the police.  

Support for victim/survivors or children experiencing domestic abuse 

If you are in immediate danger, call 999 and ask for the police. If you can’t speak and are calling on a mobile press 55 to have your call transferred to the police.  

Local support services:  

  • FearFree (specialist domestic abuse support for adult victim/survivors, young people in their own unhealthy relationships and children and young people who have witnessed domestic abuse)

          Phone: 01225 775276 

          Email: spa@fearfree.org.uk

          Website: https://www.fearfree.org.uk/refer/wiltshire/   

  • Wiltshire out of hours helpline: 01225 712880 
  • If you think a child or young person is at risk, you can find more information about Children’s Safeguarding referrals here. 

National support services:  

  • National Domestic Abuse Helpline (free 24-hour helpline)

          Phone: 08082 000247 

          Website: https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/   

  • SignHealth (support for deaf victim/survivors of domestic abuse)

          Text: 07800 003421 

          Email: da@signhealth.org.uk 

          Website: https://signhealth.org.uk/with-deaf-people/domestic-abuse/   

  • Hourglass (specifically for older people experiencing domestic abuse)

          Phone: 08088 088141 

          Email: helpline@wearehourglass.org  

          Website: https://wearehourglass.org/hourglass-services   

  • Men’s Advice Line (specifically for male victim/survivors of domestic abuse)

          Phone: 08088 010327 

          Email: info@mensadviceline.org.uk  

          Website: https://mensadviceline.org.uk/   

  • Galop (specifically for LGBTQ+ victim/survivors of domestic abuse)

          Phone: 08009 995428 

          Email: help@galop.org.uk  

          Website: https://galop.org.uk/   

  • Karma Nivarna (forced marriage and honour-based abuse helpline)

          Phone: 08005 999247 

          Website: https://karmanirvanauk.org./   

  • NPSCC

          Phone: 08088 005000 

          Email: help@NSPCC.org.uk  

          Website: https://www.nspcc.org.uk/    

Support to change abusive behaviour

If you are worried about your own abusive behaviours, support is available. 

Local services:  

  • FearFree (behaviour change support)

          Phone: 01225 775276 

          Email: spa@fearfree.org.uk 

          Website: https://www.fearfree.org.uk/refer/wiltshire/   

National services:  

  • Respect (free confidential helpline)

          Phone: 0808 802 4040  

          Email: info@respectphoneline.org.uk  

          Website: https://respectphoneline.org.uk/   

Wiltshire’s Domestic Abuse Health Needs Assessment

The Domestic Abuse Health Needs Assessment brings together multiple sources of data to create a comprehensive picture of domestic abuse in Wiltshire. 

Wiltshire’s most recent Domestic Abuse Health Needs Assessment can be found here and a presentation of the key findings can be found here. An updated Domestic Abuse Health Needs Assessment will be published in 2025.

Wiltshire’s Domestic Abuse Strategy

Wiltshire's Domestic Abuse Strategy was published in October 2021. The strategy has been produced by Wiltshire’s Domestic Abuse Local Partnership Board (DALPB) and is informed by the key findings in Wiltshire’s latest Domestic Abuse Health Needs Assessment. The DALPB is a subgroup of Wiltshire’s Community Safety Partnership and is made up of representatives from Wiltshire Council, Wiltshire Police, Office of the Police and Crime Commissioner, Integrated Care Board, National Probation Service and our community and voluntary sector. The strategy aims to show that, together, we are committed to achieving our shared goals on preventing, supporting and safeguarding those impacted by domestic abuse in Wiltshire, ensuring access to services early, and greater accountability and justice against those perpetrating it.

In May 2023 Wiltshire’s DALPB reviewed the progress made against the Domestic Abuse Strategy Implementation Plan in year 2 (2022-23). The review can be found here.

The Domestic Abuse Act 2021

The Domestic Abuse Act 2021 is an integral piece of legislation that will help to protect and safeguard those impacted by domestic abuse. One of the specifications in this Act is for local authority areas to develop a strategy for the provision of domestic abuse support within safe accommodation. Wiltshire has produced its own version of this which outlines how the partnership will work collaboratively to provide victim/survivors and their families with a range of options to remain safe at home or to access suitable alternative safe accommodation and support. This work seeks to complement existing work taking place across the county to address health and wellbeing, community safety and housing needs of those who are experiencing domestic abuse in Wiltshire. Wiltshire's Strategy for the Provision of Domestic Abuse Support within Safe Accommodation has been produced by the Wiltshire Domestic Abuse Local Partnership Board (DALPB) and is informed by the findings in Wiltshire’s latest Domestic Abuse Health Needs Assessment (HNA).

The Domestic Abuse Act 2021 also introduced new statutory duties and increased accountability on local authorities for the delivery of domestic abuse support to victim/survivors and their families in safe accommodation. The Department for Levelling Up Housing and Communities (DLUHC) determined under Section 31 of the Local Government Act 2003 that a grant should be paid to local authorities to support the implementation of this act, and in February 2024 Wiltshire Council’s Public Health Team reviewed the progress made against this grant locally. The grant review can be found here.

The Domestic Abuse Act 2021 also recognises that children who see, hear, or otherwise experience effects of domestic abuse are victims in their own right. This is an important development as it recognises the significant impact that domestic abuse can have on children. You can find out more about the impact of domestic abuse on children here.

If you think a child or young person is at risk, you can find more information about Children’s Safeguarding referrals here. There are also local and national support services who support children and young people experiencing domestic abuse: 

  • FearFree (specialist domestic abuse support)

          Phone: 01225 775276 

          Email: spa@fearfree.org.uk 

          Website: https://www.fearfree.org.uk/refer/wiltshire/   

  • Wiltshire out of hours helpline: 01225 712880 
  • NPSCC

          Phone: 08088 005000 

          Email: help@NSPCC.org.uk  

          Website: https://www.nspcc.org.uk/  

Training for Wiltshire professionals

If you are a professional working within the Wiltshire local authority area you can access domestic abuse training via the Safeguarding Vulnerable People Partnership (SVPP) website.

Domestic Abuse Related Death Reviews (formerly known as Domestic Homicide Reviews)

Domestic Abuse Related Death Reviews are carried out when domestic abuse results in a death of the victim. This will help professionals understand what happened and what needs to change to reduce the risk of something like this happening again. You can find out more about Domestic Abuse Related Death Reviews here

Domestic Abuse Toolkit for Employers

Wiltshire conducted a Domestic Homicide Review (now known as a Domestic Abuse Related Death Review) resulting in a recommendation relating to the importance of employers providing support to employees affected by Domestic Abuse. We spend a lot of our time at work, and so employers can have a key role in helping both victims and perpetrators of domestic abuse. We would encourage you to look at what domestic abuse policies your organisations hold and would promote the use of the Domestic Abuse Toolkit for Employers to help create a domestic abuse policy, or improve an existing one. We would also advise all organisations to consider signing up to the Employers’ Initiative on Domestic Abuse, which also provides guidance and support to employers.